Exhausted New Mom Thinks She’s Patting Baby to Sleep—Realizes It’s Her Cat

Screenshots from an August 23 TikTok video of the mother patting her cat while sleeping when she thought it was her newborn

Every new parent knows the haze of sleep deprivation. But one mom’s viral TikTok shows just how funny (and heartwarming) postpartum exhaustion can be—especially when the family cat gets involved.

The Midnight Mix-Up

TikTok user Val (@vallmariee0) recently shared how, in her half-asleep state, she thought she was soothing her newborn to sleep. Eyes closed, hand patting rhythmically, she was convinced her baby was safe in her arms.

Except… it wasn’t the baby at all.

Her husband, who was awake with the newborn at the foot of the bed, recorded the hilarious mix-up. In reality, Val was gently patting her cat, who lay perfectly still under the covers, blissfully soaking up the attention.

“I thought I was patting my baby because we were co-sleeping at the time,” Val admitted. “But I knew my husband had him!”

A Cat Who Didn’t Mind One Bit

While Val unintentionally confused her babies, her fur baby had zero complaints. The cat calmly stretched out, enjoying the rare moment of undivided affection—something TikTok users joked he’d been missing since the new arrival.

One viewer wrote: “Your cat is like, ‘Yes, finally she’s spending time with me again.’”
Another joked: “The cat was like, ‘My plan worked.’”
And a third added: “Baby is asleep, cat is happy—I think you’re doing just fine.”

The video quickly blew up, racking up 6.2 million views and 1.5 million likes in just days.

Postpartum Fatigue Is Real

Beyond the humor, Val’s video highlights a real challenge many parents face: postpartum fatigue. A study from the National Library of Medicine found that nearly 47% of new mothers experience significant fatigue symptoms, which can impact concentration, energy, and sleep cycles.

The combination of sleepless nights, constant caregiving, and hormonal shifts means that small, funny mistakes like Val’s are not just relatable—they’re common.

Takeaway for Pet Parents and New Parents

Welcoming a new baby doesn’t mean your pets stop being your “first babies.” Cats and dogs often notice the shift in attention, but including them in gentle ways—like cuddle time—can help them feel secure too.

And if you find yourself confusing one baby for another? Don’t worry. It just means your heart has room for both.

FAQ

Q: Do cats get jealous when a new baby arrives?

Yes, some cats may feel stressed or left out. Keeping routines, offering extra affection, and slow introductions can ease the transition.

Q: Is co-sleeping with cats safe for newborns?

It’s not recommended to let cats sleep in the same crib as a baby due to suffocation risks. Always supervise interactions and keep cats close in safe, separate spaces.

Q: How can new parents balance caring for a baby and a pet?

Stick to consistent pet routines, involve pets in family time, and give them attention in short, meaningful bursts—even 5–10 minutes of play or cuddles daily helps.

Do you have funny and adorable videos or pictures of your pet you want to share? Send them to lifo@snugglesouls.com with some details about your best friend, and they could appear in our Pet of the Week lineup.