Top 10 Friendliest Cat Breeds for you

Welcome to the World of Friendliest Cat Breeds

Cats have a reputation for independence, but as lifelong cat lovers, we at SnuggleSouls know that felines can be incredibly affectionate companions. If you’re a first-time cat parent or adding a new fur member to a multi-pet family, you might be wondering which breeds are the most people-friendly.

We’re here to help you understand and meet some of the gentlest, most sociable cat breeds around. Each of these ten breeds is renowned for its loving nature – not just toward humans, but often with other cats, dogs, and even kids.

Let’s explore these breeds together in a warm, practical way so you can find the purr-fect snuggle buddy for your home.

Quick Glance: 10 Friendliest Cat Breeds

(Above, we’ve summarized each breed’s personality, grooming, and energy needs at a glance. Read on for a more personal introduction to each friendly feline!)

Meet Your Cat: Delightful Breeds

Ragdoll

Introduce

Ragdolls are often the first breed mentioned when people ask about friendly cats – and for good reason. These big, blue-eyed beauties got their name from the way they flop happily into your arms when held, just like a rag doll. Ragdolls have a gentle, patient nature and love being with their humans.

In fact, they’re such laid-back lap cats that they’ll follow you around the house and even greet you at the door after work.

Don’t be surprised if your Ragdoll learns to play fetch or comes when called – they’re quite intelligent and “puppy-like” in their devotion. With a Ragdoll, you’ll never feel alone; their favorite place is right by your side, purring contentedly.

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If you’re looking for a calm, affectionate companion that’s great with children, seniors, and even other pets, a Ragdoll could be your perfect match. We’ve found that Ragdolls adapt well to family life – they tolerate gentle play from kids and tend to get along with cat-friendly dogs due to their easygoing temperament.

As a first-time cat parent, you’ll appreciate that Ragdolls are not overly demanding; they’re playful but not hyperactive, preferring cuddles and cozy naps to wild antics. Do keep in mind their beautiful semi-long fur needs brushing about once or twice a week to stay tangle-free.

If you can handle a bit of grooming and lots of snuggling, a Ragdoll will reward you with endless love. (And yes, you can find Ragdolls through rescues or shelters sometimes – many a lucky adopter has met their floppy, friendly soul mate that way!)

Read more about your Ragdoll

Maine Coon

Introduce

Meet the Maine Coon, the majestic “gentle giant” of the cat world. Don’t let their impressive size and fluff intimidate you – Maine Coons are famously affectionate with just about everyone. This breed is known for being friendly with other cats, dogs, and people of all ages.

A Maine Coon often has a big tufted paw in every family activity: they’ll chirp and trill to communicate with you and might even help you by chasing off any errant insect or inspecting the water faucet (many Maine Coons actually like water!). Despite their lumberjack look, these cats have hearts of gold.

They are sociable and loyal pets who often bond with the whole family. It’s not unusual to find a Maine Coon curling up next to you on the couch or gently head-butting you for attention.

They’re also quite smart – some owners teach them tricks or leash walking, as Maine Coons can be as trainable and companionable as dogs.

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A Maine Coon could be the one if you want a pet that’s great with kids and other pets, and you have a bit of space for a larger cat. Their patient, friendly nature means they typically won’t mind curious toddlers or canine buddies – they often even enjoy the company, earning that family pet extraordinaire reputation.

First-time cat owners often do well with Maine Coons because these cats are easygoing and hardy. Just be prepared: they are big cats (males can be 15–20 pounds), so you’ll need a sturdy litter box, a big enough lap, and time for regular grooming (their dense semi-long coat benefits from weekly brushing).

Maine Coons have a moderate energy level – they appreciate playtime (think feather wands, puzzle toys, or even a game of fetch) but are equally happy chilling near you.

If you dream of a friendly, mild-mannered cat who can keep up with family life and greet every visitor with a purr, the Maine Coon might just be your ideal snuggle soul mate.

Read more about your Maine Coon

Siamese

Introduce

If you want a cat that will “chat” with you and follow you from room to room, the Siamese might steal your heart. Siamese cats are intensely loyal and social, often forming a deep bond with their favorite person.

This breed thrives on interaction – they’re famously vocal, known for their low-pitched but loud meows (some call them “meezers” for their meezer sounds!). A Siamese will tell you exactly how they feel and demand plenty of your attention.

They’re sleek, athletic cats with striking blue eyes, and they love to play. Don’t be surprised to find your Siamese jumping onto your lap, your desk, or your shoulders just to be close to you. They are one of the most people-oriented breeds and can be quite affectionate, often enjoying snuggles when they’re not busy exploring.

However, like many friendly breeds, their affection usually centers on their family – Siamese cats can be a bit wary of strangers at first, though they warm up once trust is earned.

Is This Your SnuggleSoul?

A Siamese could be perfect if you desire a constant companion and don’t mind a talkative pet. We often recommend Siamese for households where someone is around much of the day – they do best when they have company, whether human or another pet.

In fact, Siamese cats are so social that they often appreciate having a feline friend; a pair of Siamese can keep each other entertained and comforted when you’re out. They are great in active families and with gentle kids – Siamese will readily play and entertain, and they’re known to be quite tolerant if properly socialized.

Just remember that this breed hates to be ignored; a bored or lonely Siamese might get into mischief or become noisy. As a first-time owner, you’ll find Siamese are trainable and engaging – some even learn tricks or games easily – but you should be prepared for their high energy and need for stimulation.

Grooming is a breeze (their coats are short and low-maintenance), so you can focus more on interactive play and cuddle time. If you want a cat that’s like an outgoing best friend – one that might literally grab your face for a kiss – the Siamese is calling your name.

Read more about your Siamese

Abyssinian

Introduce

Ever wish for a feline friend who’s involved in everything you do? Meet the Abyssinian (or “Aby” for short). This breed is the definition of people-oriented and curious. Abys have an almost puppy-like eagerness to interact – they’ll climb onto your shoulder to watch what you’re doing, chase your pen while you write, and generally act as your adorable little shadow.

They’re not known as lap cats (life’s too exciting to stay still!), but they show affection by being right there with you, always interested and “helping.” With a lean, muscular build and a ticked coat that gives them a wildcat look, Abyssinians are also one of the most playful and active breeds.

They love to climb and survey their domain from a high perch. If you don’t supply toys or games, an Aby will invent their own (sometimes by sneaking open a cabinet or exploring off-limits nooks!). But don’t mistake their high energy for aloofness – Abys are very loving in their own energetic way, often purring loudly and giving head bumps when you engage with them.

Is This Your SnuggleSoul?

Choose an Abyssinian if you crave an interactive, entertaining buddy and you’re ready for a cat that keeps you on your toes.

We’ve seen Abyssinians thrive in active households – they adore kids who will play with them and they usually get along with cat-friendly dogs or other cats, especially those that can match their play drive. Because they are so intelligent and busy, Abys are a good choice if you want a cat you can train or teach tricks to (they’re often happy to learn fetch or puzzle toys).

However, if you prefer a couch potato cat, the Abyssinian might be a bit much – they will get bored without ample stimulation. First-time cat owners can absolutely enjoy an Aby, provided you’re prepared for an energetic pet and cat-proof your home (think of it like toddler-proofing – these cats will investigate everything!).

The good news is their short coat requires minimal grooming, and their health is generally robust with proper exercise and enrichment. An Aby will “help” you live life to the fullest – their enthusiasm is infectious.

If your ideal cat is one that greets you at the door, rides on your shoulder, and turns every day into a playful adventure, the Abyssinian could be your ultimate SnuggleSoul.

Read more about your Abyssinian

Persian

Introduce

The Persian is the classic calm, cuddly lap cat. These fluffy felines have been cherished for centuries for their gentle dispositions.

A Persian’s idea of a perfect day is lounging in their favorite spot (often on you or a cozy cushion nearby) and receiving lots of petting. They’re so relaxed that one pet expert jokingly said Persians are sometimes nicknamed “furniture with hair” – they love to sit prettily and observe the household in a laid-back manner.

Persians are typically very affectionate with their family, though they might be a bit reserved or shy with new people until they feel comfortable. Don’t expect a Persian to climb your curtains or zoom around at 3 AM; they have a low-key approach to life. You might get some playful swats at a toy, but they generally prefer a calm, stable environment.

Their sweet temperament and round, expressive eyes can melt anyone’s heart, and they often communicate with soft, melodic chirps rather than loud meows.

Is This Your SnuggleSoul?

A Persian could be the perfect snuggle buddy if you’re looking for a tranquil, loving cat to relax with.

They’re especially great for quieter households – seniors and individuals or families that enjoy a calm atmosphere find Persians to be wonderful companions. They do fine with gentle children and polite pets; Persians are tolerant, but they truly flourish in an environment where they aren’t constantly startled or chased.

If you’re a first-time cat owner, a Persian’s easygoing (albeit sometimes aloof) nature can be comforting – they won’t overwhelm you with high demands. However, you must be ready for grooming duty. That luxurious long coat isn’t low-maintenance: daily gentle brushing will keep their fur from matting and keep your kitty looking and feeling great.

Many Persian owners turn grooming into bonding time – your Persian will likely enjoy the attention once they’re used to the routine. Also, keep their flat little face clean, as those big eyes can tear up.

In return for your care, you’ll get a devoted lap warmer who looks at you like you’re the center of their world. If you imagine peaceful evenings with a purring fluffball on your lap, a Persian might be your ideal SnuggleSoul.

Read more about your Persian

Burmese

Introduce

The Burmese may just be the social butterfly of the cat world. These cats absolutely adore their people – so much so that it’s often said one Burmese is not enough!

They are known to form strong bonds with their families, following you from room to room as if they’re afraid of missing out on the fun. Burmese cats have a lively, almost dog-like personality: they’re confident, curious, and love to play games (many Burmese will happily fetch toys or play tag).

Yet, they are also champion snugglers, always ready to curl up in your lap or right under the covers with you at night. With their big gold eyes and velvety short coat, Burmese are striking to look at, but it’s their warm-hearted nature that wins everyone over. They’re often so friendly and outgoing that they’ll greet strangers or make themselves at home on a visitor’s lap.

In fact, the Cat Fanciers’ Association notes Burmese have an irresistible appeal – even people who thought they weren’t “cat people” often fall in love with this breed.

Is This Your SnuggleSoul?

If you want a truly affectionate, family-oriented cat, the Burmese could be your dream come true. We love recommending Burmese to families with children or multi-pet households – these cats typically get along wonderfully with kids, other cats, and even cat-friendly dogs.

They’re sturdy and patient enough for respectful play, and they love the company. As a first-time cat owner, you’ll find Burmese to be interactive and easy to handle – they want to be involved in your life, whether it’s “helping” with chores or sitting on your lap during a movie.

Keep in mind, Burmese are high-energy and intelligent. They thrive with lots of playtime and enrichment; a bored Burmese will come looking for you and might invent games if you don’t provide them.

The good news: they’ll also tire themselves out with play and then blissfully nap on you. Their grooming needs are minimal (just occasional brushing; their coat is short and smooth). The main thing a Burmese asks for is attention and love – they crave it.

If you’re ready to have a chatty, playful pal who wants to be your second shadow and your cuddle partner, a Burmese could be the ideal SnuggleSoul.

Read more about your Burmese

Birman

Introduce

Birmans are often called the “gentle giants” of affection (even though they’re medium-sized cats). They have a reputation for being easy-going, patient companions who bond closely with their families.

A Birman looks a bit like a pointed Siamese-type cat crossed with a fluffier Persian – they have gorgeous blue eyes and silky medium-long fur with cute white “gloves” on their paws. Unlike some talkative breeds, Birmans are usually on the quiet side, communicating with soft chirps when they have something to say.

They are very people-friendly and typically greet visitors with curiosity and kindness. We’ve seen Birmans fit in seamlessly with kids and other pets; they’re not aggressive or skittish by nature.

Instead, a Birman often takes life in stride. They enjoy attention and affection (who doesn’t love a nice petting session?), but they aren’t as demanding as, say, a Siamese.

You might find your Birman happily lounging nearby as you work or study, content just to be in the same room. Their temperament is often described as angelic – sweet, loving, and calm.

Is This Your SnuggleSoul?

If you imagine a gentle, friendly cat that’s neither too clingy nor too standoffish, a Birman might be the perfect candidate. For first-time cat owners, Birmans are kind of a “goldilocks” breed: just the right balance of playful and calm.

They are usually wonderful with children and other pets, making them great for families. A Birman likely won’t mind if your toddler wants to wave a feather toy or if you already have a cat or dog – they tend to be accepting and sociable.

They do appreciate your companionship, so while they aren’t overly needy, they can get lonely if left alone all day every day (consider a pair of Birmans or a friendly pet buddy if you’re away often). Grooming a Birman is moderate: their fur is medium-long but texture is silky and not as prone to matting as a Persian’s.

A good brush once or twice a week should suffice, and many Birmans actually enjoy the grooming attention. In return, you get a devoted friend who will likely shadow you from room to room and snuggle up whenever you’re ready to relax.

If you’re looking for a cat that’s consistently kind-hearted and adaptable – a true family sweetheart – the Birman could be your ideal SnuggleSoul.

Read more about your Birmans

Sphynx

Introduce

No fur? No problem! The Sphynx might look a little unconventional with its nearly hairless, wrinkled appearance, but spend a few minutes with one and you’ll forget about looks entirely – these cats are pure love and energy. Sphynxes are friendly, outgoing, and absolutely crave attention.

In fact, they’re sometimes described as class clowns or perpetual toddlers because of their playful, mischievous antics. A Sphynx will zoom around to show off for an audience and might even perform goofy tricks (all the while checking to make sure you’re watching!).

They thrive on human interaction and will follow you everywhere, often chirping or trilling to get your attention. When playtime is over, a Sphynx is just as eager to cuddle – they adore warmth and contact, so they’ll snuggle under blankets, curl up on your lap, or even cling to you like a little monkey.

This social butterfly nature means a Sphynx rarely hides or acts shy; they’ll likely greet houseguests with the same enthusiasm they show you. It’s safe to say that in the Sphynx’s opinion, everyone is a friend they haven’t met yet.

Is This Your SnuggleSoul?

Consider a Sphynx if you want a high-energy, affectionate companion who will be deeply involved in your daily life. These cats are ideal for owners who have plenty of time and love to give – they do not like to be ignored!

Because Sphynxes are so people-oriented, they fit well in families with kids or other pets, assuming the other animals are gentle (a Sphynx will even cozy up to the family dog for warmth and friendship). They’re happiest in a busy household with lots of company; if you work long hours, you might consider having two Sphynx cats so they can keep each other company.

First-time cat parents should note that Sphynxes require a bit of special care: their lack of fur means they can get cold easily and yes, you might need to dress your Sphynx in a cute sweater on chilly days! Also, they do need regular skin care – oils accumulate on their skin, so a weekly bath (which many Sphynxes tolerate well if accustomed young) will keep them clean and comfortable.

Don’t let that scare you, though; many owners find that these grooming routines strengthen the bond with their Sphynx. In terms of maintenance, think of a Sphynx as half cat, half baby – they’ll keep you busy, but with all the snuggles and entertainment they provide, it’s totally worth it.

If you’re ready for a cat that will love you exuberantly and keep you laughing, the Sphynx could be your ultimate SnuggleSoul.

Read more about your Sphynx

Scottish Fold

Introduce

It’s hard not to say “aww” when you meet a Scottish Fold – those unique folded ears and round expressive eyes give them an owl-like cuteness that’s off the charts. But beyond looks, Scottish Folds are adored for being incredibly sweet and affectionate.

In fact, they’re just as warm-hearted as their appearance suggests, often befriending everyone in the family – including other pets. A Scottish Fold is typically a quiet companion with a gentle soul. They enjoy being near their humans, whether that means sitting on your lap or just cuddling up at your feet.

Many Folds have quirky habits too, like posing in funny positions (the classic “Buddha sit” on their hind legs, or lying flat like a pancake). These antics, combined with their loving nature, make them utterly endearing.

They are moderately playful; a Scottish Fold will happily chase a toy mouse or partake in a game of laser pointer, but they’re equally content snoozing in a sunny spot.

Adaptability is another strong suit – Scottish Folds usually handle changes or new people with calm curiosity rather than fear.

Is This Your SnuggleSoul?

A Scottish Fold can be a fantastic choice if you want a mellow, loving cat that fits well in a family setting. They are known to be good with kids, other cats, and even calm dogs, thanks to their laid-back and friendly temperament.

First-time cat owners often appreciate that Scottish Folds are neither too needy nor aloof – they strike a nice balance, being affectionate without constantly demanding attention. That said, Folds do love company and may prefer having a buddy (whether human or animal) around; they’re not fond of being left alone for long periods.

One important note: the gene that causes their folded ears can also lead to joint issues or arthritis in some Scottish Folds. A responsible breeder will discuss this with you, but as an owner, it means you should handle them gently and watch for any signs of discomfort as they age.

Keeping your Fold at a healthy weight and providing joint supplements if recommended can help. Grooming a short-haired Scottish Fold is easy (just weekly brushing), and even the long-haired variety (sometimes called Highland Fold) only needs a bit of extra combing.

In return for this basic care, you’ll get a devoted, teddy-bear-like friend. If your heart melts at the thought of a round-faced kitty curling up next to you and purring softly, a Scottish Fold might be your SnuggleSoul match.

Read more about your Scottish Fold

Exotic Shorthair

Introduce

Think of the Exotic Shorthair as the Persian’s easy-going cousin. This breed was developed to have the same loving personality of a Persian but without the high-maintenance coat.

The result? A sweet, quiet, and affectionate cat with a plush short coat and an adorably squishy face. Exotics are sometimes nicknamed “lazy man’s Persians” because they are gentle, loyal companions who don’t require as much grooming.

These cats are very people-friendly – an Exotic will happily snuggle on your lap or sit next to you, content in your presence. They tend to be calm and not overly demanding. While they enjoy playtime like any cat (and can be quite goofy batting at feather toys or chasing a ball), Exotics are typically low-to-moderate in energy.

They spend a good portion of the day napping or observing. You might hear an Exotic Shorthair make soft, squeaky meows when they want your attention, but they’re not loud or pushy.

In short, they have big hearts and easygoing attitudes, which is why they fit so well into all kinds of homes.

Is This Your SnuggleSoul?

For someone seeking a devoted, low-fuss lap cat, an Exotic Shorthair is a top contender. They are ideal for families or individuals who want an affectionate pet but prefer a more relaxed, quiet home life. Exotics typically get along with other friendly pets and polite children – their tolerant and gentle nature means they won’t be the ones instigating trouble.

In our experience, first-time cat owners do great with Exotics because these cats are adaptable and undemanding. You won’t need to chase them around the house (unless they get a brief silly burst of energy), and they’re perfectly content being indoor-only cats lounging in comfort.

One of the biggest perks: minimal grooming effort. A weekly brush or the occasional wipe-down keeps their dense coat in good shape, and you avoid the shedding tumbleweeds that come with a Persian.

Do keep an eye on that cute flat face; like Persians, Exotics can have a tendency for tearful eyes or snuffly noses, so a little facial cleaning now and then will keep them healthy.

If you can manage that, you’ll be rewarded with an extremely loyal companion who shows you love without being a velcro-cat shadow. An Exotic Shorthair is perfect for someone who wants a cuddly, sweet best friend in feline form – definitely a SnuggleSoul in our book.

Read more about your Exotic Shorthair

Our Promise to You: A Lifetime of Snuggles

At SnuggleSouls, we know that welcoming a cat into your life is more than a choice — it’s the beginning of a beautiful journey. And we’re here to guide you at every step.

With years of experience helping families find their perfect feline match, we’re proud to offer honest, compassionate support from the moment you start your search. Whether your heart leans toward a playful Siamese or a gentle British Shorthair, we’ll help you feel confident and ready to give your cat the loving home they deserve.

From practical tips to emotional reassurance, we’re your trusted companion in every stage of pet parenthood. Because every cat deserves a safe, happy life — and every cat parent deserves to feel supported. Here’s to years of joy, bonding, and, of course, endless snuggles.

Want to learn more?

Our journey through the world of friendly cat breeds doesn’t have to end here. If you’re excited about welcoming a new cat into your life, be sure to check out our Beginner’s Guide to Cat Adoption for tips on finding and caring for your kitty.

You can also explore our Cat Breed Encyclopedia for deeper dives into each breed’s personality and care needs. At SnuggleSouls, we’re here to help you understand and love your cat every step of the way.

Find Your Purr-fect Match Among All Cat Breeds

At SnuggleSouls, we believe every cat deserves a forever home—and every cat lover deserves the perfect feline companion. Whether you’re drawn to the charm of small cat breeds, the balanced nature of medium cats, or the majestic presence of large cat breeds, we’ve got detailed guides to help you choose wisely.

Prefer grooming to be a breeze? Check out our picks for shorthair cat breeds, hairless cats, and low-shedding breeds. Longing for luxurious coats? Our longhair cat breed guide might just melt your heart.

If you or your family members have allergies, don’t worry—we’ve also curated a trusted list of hypoallergenic cat breeds that might work better for sensitive households.

Explore all our breed guides to find the snuggle soul that’s truly meant for you.

FAQ

Which cat breed is the friendliest overall?

Ragdolls often take the top spot thanks to their famously docile, people-loving nature. That said, every breed on our list—Maine Coon, Burmese, Siamese, and more—ranks high for affection when well socialized.

Are these breeds good with children and other pets?

Yes. Maine Coons, Burmese, Birmans, Scottish Folds, and others on the list are renowned for their patience and adaptability to kids, cats, and even cat-friendly dogs when introductions are done slowly.

Can I adopt these cats, or do I need a breeder?

Pure-bred rescues, shelters, and breed-specific foster networks often have Ragdolls, Siamese, Persians, and other friendly breeds in need of homes—so adoption is very possible and encouraged. Even mixed-breed cats can be incredibly affectionate, especially when well-socialized.

Which cat breeds are best for first-time owners?

Breeds like Ragdoll, Birman, Exotic Shorthair, and Scottish Fold are ideal for first-time owners due to their calm temperaments, easy grooming needs, and affectionate personalities.

Are affectionate cats always lap cats?

Not necessarily. Some friendly breeds, like Abyssinians or Sphynx, prefer following you around or engaging in play rather than cuddling in your lap, but they still show love through interaction and companionship.